1. TO HAVE ‘LEGITIMATE’ ACCESS TO YOUR MONEY
Some partners use this means to get ‘financial breakthrough’ by making the other partner feel highly obliged to fund them. They do this when they know their partner is psychologically weak and feel so attached to them emotionally; they therefore capitalizes on this to keep reaping financial gains.
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Once a partner establishes this circle in the other partner, they take full advantage of it and keeps exploiting it over and over again.
Guys are guiltier of this especially in relationship. The girl might not be getting the required attention probably due to multiple distractions the guy is having but the guy becomes jealous when he sees other guys paying attention to his girl either publicly or on social media. The reaction of the guy at these times is to initiate sex with the hidden fear that if he does not do it other guys might take advantage and his girl might not be able to resist.
This is borne out of care by every partner and the understanding that it is a responsibility to satisfy each other in a relationship; there is usually no strings attached except that it is something that each partner understand they both need as a unifying component of the relationship. In some cases, one of the partner make so much sacrifice because they might not be getting sexual satisfaction as their basic aim is to satisfy their partner and hardly reach organism.
One of the partner or both may be sexually active persons and therefore see sex as a factor of existence, they love to have it as much as it is possible. This is a good and healthy situation in a relationship when both parties are sexually compatible. It needs careful management when only one person in the relations is sexually active, therefore other means that are acceptable to the needy party should be sought to ensure there is no buildup of frustration and subsequent dissatisfaction that may lead to infidelity.
This is selfish approach to sex; it is when a partner has sex with the other just for personal satisfaction. The partner sees the other partner only as a means or tool of sexual satisfaction regardless of whether the other person gets the same satisfaction or not. Guys are guiltier of this though some women also exhibit this behavior. Men with premature ejaculation and women who cum quickly always falls in this category as they readily say ‘please I am tired’ or ‘please I am okay’ and quickly get out of bed.